How Healthy Stress Helps You Lead Well

By Dr. Paul G. Leavenworth, the Convergence group

Most of us treat stress like the enemy—something to avoid, escape, or just survive. But not all stress pulls you under. Some forms of stress actually strengthen you, sharpen your thinking, and push you toward growth. Dr. Paul G. Leavenworth calls this “healthy stress,” and when we learn to work with it rather than against it, it becomes a surprisingly powerful ally in life and leadership.


What Is Healthy Stress, Really?


We all know what overwhelming stress feels like—overcommitment, exhaustion, irritability, poor decision-making. But boredom and stagnation can create their own kind of stress, too. Healthy stress, often called eustress, is the sweet spot in between. It’s the kind of challenge that motivates you, fuels creativity, and nudges you forward instead of shutting you down.


Healthy Stress Motivates

Short bursts of pressure can help you focus, follow through, and find inspiration you might otherwise miss.


Healthy Stress Sparks Creativity

Many leaders experience innovation when a meaningful challenge stretches them in the best way.


Healthy Stress Helps You Adapt

Positive stress equips you to respond wisely when life shifts—new roles, new responsibilities, even unexpected changes.


What Turns Stress Unhealthy?


Stress becomes unhealthy when it traps you—too much pressure for too long or too little purpose for too long. Without wise rhythms, both extremes can lead to the same symptoms: irritability, lack of motivation, mental fog, and unwise decisions.


How Leaders Can Transform Stress Into Strength


Dr. Paul outlines several practices that help leaders move from overwhelmed to grounded—from reactive stress to purposeful, focused living. These rhythms build resilience and support compassionate leadership that reflects the heart of Christ.


1. Strengthen Your Spiritual Core

Prayer, Scripture, and other spiritual disciplines steady your inner life and keep your heart anchored. Richard Foster calls them “disciplines of grace” because they open us to the presence and work of God.


2. Cultivate a Sovereign Perspective

Stress changes when you trust that God is loving, patient, and purposeful, even when circumstances feel chaotic. Bobby Clinton calls this a “sovereign mindset”—seeing God’s hand in your development.


3. Prioritize People Over Productivity

Jesus modeled a life where relationships mattered more than output. Paul notes that what we carry into eternity is not our accomplishments but the quality of our relationships.


4. Care for Your Body

Good nutrition and exercise matter more as we age, but the habits begin early. Healthy bodies support clear thinking and balanced emotional responses to stress.


5. Build Healthy Margins

Back-to-back schedules create friction and burnout. Jesus modeled pace, rest, and intention—even when the needs around Him were endless.


6. Embrace Rhythm of Evaluation and Accountability

Regular reflection and trusted accountability help you avoid patterns that drain you. They create space to course-correct and grow with humility.


7. Live With Intentional Focus

Purpose gives direction to your stress. Clinton’s four focal points—unique purpose, unique role, unique methodologies, and ultimate contributions—help leaders discern how to invest their time, energy, and influence.


Why Healthy Stress Matters for Christian Leaders


When leaders learn how to work with healthy stress, they become more present, more creative, and more compassionate. They lead with wisdom instead of reactivity. They stay grounded in Christ instead of getting swept up in pressure or distraction. Healthy stress becomes one of God’s tools for shaping leaders who persevere and finish well.


Final Encouragement


You don’t have to fear stress. With Christ shaping your rhythms, healthy stress can become a steadying force—driving growth, strengthening relationships, and helping you lead with clarity and confidence. This is the kind of leadership that lasts.

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